Saturday, March 27, 2010
Sloooow down, sister
I am learning how to just chill. My boyfriend, Brent, is helping me learn to just live in the moment. I always have to go over my mental list with him about six times. Then if I don't get everything done on it, I freak. He tells me to just relax and take a break. So I am now really focusing on not even having a list. I am just concentrating on going with the flow. Every time I give him a list, he always says, "Babe, you don't have to tell me your list or even have one at all. Whatever we get done, than that will just have to do. Let's just relax and enjoy the day." I used to get angry when he would tell me this. Now it helps me so much. We live in a small house with three kids. There's always gonna be something to do. Oh well. Tonight, I am going to dinner with him. Can't wait to just have a RELAXING evening. We don't have any time frame we are following. I feel better already.
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I always avoided lists because they only reminded me of what I didn't get done. I figure I'm going to remember to do the most important things, so if something doesn't get done today, the world isn't going to end if it has to wait until tomorrow.
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That sounds like a great plan, Krista!!
ReplyDeleteHope you enjoy your evening out.
Wow! Come to think of it, it has been a long time since I didn't try to stick to a list all day. Think I'll pamper myself in your honor by giving it all a break tomorrow! Thanks for sharing :)
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